You Are Not the Cosmic Cruise Director! Here’s What to Do When You’re Done Giving to Everyone Else First // Tea with Robin Podcast Episode 52

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you are a supercollider

Are there people in your life who ask for so much from you that you can’t manage to stay nice with them? Do you ever wish you could just tell them what you really think, or pop them one with your caretaker’s clipboard? Well, before it gets to that point, come listen to this episode! You are not the Cosmic Cruise Director for anyone unless you choose to be. 🎧 Listen to Episode 52: Cosmic Cruise Director, Irrational Joy, #motivationtochange My session notes including time stamps are below http://robinhallett.libsyn.com/episode-52-cosmic-cruise-director-irrational-joy-motivationtochange This… …Read More »

Friendship Friction and What We Can Do About It // Tea with Robin Podcast Episode 39

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Close friends. They’re in our hearts and we want to stay connected but so often there are upsets and bothers we don’t know how to talk about. How do we deal with friendship friction? How do we recognize the problem, address the pattern, and do the healing? In this episode, we’re talking about taking your relationships to the next level as you heal the patterns which continue to repeat for you. Listen here or wherever you enjoy podcasts 🙂 My session notes are below 😍😘 Episode 39: Friendship, Agency, #relationshipgoals… …Read More »

How to Not Get Drained by Other People and Stay Your Sparkling, Shiny Self // Tea with Robin Podcast Episode 38

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belonging

How do you not get drained by other people? How do you not get “infected” by other people’s upset? What about the people in your life who are heavy and sad on a regular basis? And with all of that happening around you, how do you stay as your true sparkling self? Let’s dive in! Listen here or wherever you enjoy podcasts 🙂 My session notes are below 😍😘💖 Episode 38: Drainers, Dark Disco, #raisethevibe http://robinhallett.libsyn.com/episode-38-drainers-dark-disco-raisethevibe In this episode, I am sharing about how we deal with people who are… …Read More »

The People Who Treat You Badly and What to Do About It // Tea with Robin Podcast Episode 35

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What do you do about the people who don’t treat you right? How do we not go to kookytown getting so upset and handle what we need to handle without throwing ourselves under the bus? In this episode, I’m talking about all the scenarios–from strangers to friends to family members, and share ideas on what to do with your upset and how to not let it ruin your day. Today’s inspiration comes from Mr. Joel Osteen who gave me one of the best quotes ever. This week’s letter comes from… …Read More »

Healthy Boundaries and How to Set Them Even When It’s Scary And Nobody Understands Why You’re Upset // Tea with Robin Podcast Episode 34

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robin hallett intuitive healer setting boundaries

If you ask me, we spend way too much time worrying about things that other people might do or say in response to us being who we are. We worry about the perfect way to be in order to avoid upsetting anyone else and because of that we end up doing things we don’t want to be doing. We say yes when we mean no. We pretend to care when we don’t. We act interested when we aren’t. And in those times when we speak up and do what we… …Read More »

How to Get Through the Holidays Without the Bitter Pills (with video)

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HI sweet Friends, I am sending so much love your way right now. It takes a lot of courage to be on this journey of awakening and I really appreciate that you are doing the work! My healing sessions with many here in our Love Posse have been about the bitter pill we try and swallow around this time of year. (I’d describe a bitter pill as anything unpleasant we feel unable to change) Some of us have repetitive stories about the holidays — stories like, people don’t care about… …Read More »

Release the Elephants! How to Avoid Family Drama During the Holidays

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Release the Elephants! How to Avoid Family Drama During the Holidays

Here’s how to shift your perspective and let go of the upsets family drama can bring. Especially now at this time of year when things seem particularly challenging. Nothing brings on the elephants like a holiday season. (do you know that saying, the elephant in the living room?) The elephant stands there in the middle of the room while people gather around and pretend it isn’t there. The elephant seems to be blowing a trumpet of truth and discomfort and sometimes even leaves you yukky “presents” on the floor… but… …Read More »

Read This If the Thought of the Holidays Feels Hard or Overwhelming or Just Like, SKIPPING!

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holidays, family, and baggage, oh my!

On approaching the holiday season in the spirit of honoring how you feel and giving yourself permission to make space for you–even if that seems challenging, especially if you have people in your life who don’t get it. Hello, sweet friend! I am sending love and a hug your way today. Here in the states, it is almost Thanksgiving, which means it’s also almost Christmas Party Season along with Hanukkah and Festivus and Christmas Actual and Kwanzaa and Boxing Day and (ok I am stretching it a bit) New Year.… …Read More »

Me Too, Wooboo.

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Me too, wooboo.

Hello, sweet Friend, I am sending you some love and a bit of magic — the kind that is peaceful and sweet and knows just where it’s needed most. This has been a big week. Yikes, it feels like I’ve been saying that to you a lot lately. I thought about not writing to you about Me Too this week. I have this little issue with not wanting to be a downer in my letters to you. I get scared to ruin the party sometimes and I don’t want people fleeing… …Read More »

Sell crazy someplace else, we’re all stocked up here…

Posted Posted in Boundaries, Intuitive Healing, Relationships
sell crazy someplace else

I got an email a while back from a relative and then I had a hot and prickly stomachache for two days. This person, my uncle, had subscribed to my newsletter list and although I kind-of-sort-of noticed the name, I didn’t really put two and two together; it’s not like his name is Zebulon or anything. After his receiving a few of the weekly love notes I send to The Love Posse, he sent this scathing reply: Shame on you Robin, you can’t even bother to write a personal note… …Read More »

Why We’re Afraid to Shine and How We Can (with video)

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Hello sweet Friend! Just because you were wounded doesn’t mean you can’t shine. It is completely possible for you to shine brightly, confidently, even if you were repeatedly told that you weren’t worth it or made to feel bad for being yourself. Today’s message is about shining brightly and why that’s so darn scary. Many of us were hurt for being ourselves… there we were, shining our light so very brightly, confidently, and right then we were clobbered for revealing our true selves. We were teased, or slapped, or shamed,… …Read More »

Not My Circus, Not My Monkeys

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not my circus, not my monkeys

Hello sweet Friends, Here we go launching into the holiday season and you know what that means! Between the moments of merry-making, there will be lots of opportunities for us to practice choosing peace and ease over the other stuff we could be swirling in. As you’re making your way, I am inviting you to remember a very important truth: You are not the monkey whisperer and this isn’t the circus. It’s just too hard to manage everyone and their whackness – and anyway, it’s not your job! Better for… …Read More »

Yo Ho, Me Hearties, Yo Ho!

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I was talking to my friend today and she said all serious-like, you know if we commit to a forgiveness practice, stuff is most definitely going to come up for healing. And then we made the crazy eyes at each other. And then the peals of laughter came…because I have committed and she has committed along with many other friends of ours, and oh yes baby, the stuff is most definitely coming up for healing. Deeper, tougher stuff. The stubborn kind. I am facing all kinds of stuff I hadn’t… …Read More »

The Horrible Uglies We Never Tell

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the horrible uglies we never tell by robin hallett

I always say I am not much of a journaler… but I have 20 years of journals here. Sometimes I tell #1husband, should I croak unexpectedly, forget making me look presentable…go find those journals and burn them! More and more, I realize there are stories I am carrying that need to go. These are stories which aren’t serving me… but they’re inside me still. These little light nibblers get in the way, sucking up the juju available. In the way. Holding me back. Informing my NOW with stories about can’t,… …Read More »

Holidays, Family, and Baggage, oh my!

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Holidays, Family, and Baggage, oh my!

I read this great Anne Lamott interview where (among a lot of other things) she talks about dating. She’s on match.com and met a wonderful guy–cute, funny, handsome–but she just couldn’t see the point in their continuing because he said he had a completely normal childhood. No baggage to speak of, what on earth would we talk about? Mmmhmm, I totally get it. Holidays, family, and baggage, oh my! This is the time of year when those of us carrying the baggage will likely be spending time with the people the baggage… …Read More »