Here are 24 answers to the how, when and why of things, may they go to just the right hearts, with lots and lots of love. 1. You are not stuck (but keep saying you are and you’ll believe it). Stop calling yourself stuck unless you really want to be. Don’t keep announcing it to… …Read More »
I read this great Anne Lamott interview where (among a lot of other things) she talks about dating. She’s on match.com and met a wonderful guy–cute, funny, handsome–but she just couldn’t see the point in their continuing because he said he had a completely normal childhood. No baggage to speak of, what on earth would we talk… …Read More »
Sometimes you tell toxic stories about who you are and what is possible for your life. This does not serve you and I would like you to stop doing this. Please. These stories are too small for you, they don’t fit anymore. You can always tell these kinds of stories by the way they… …Read More »
I have a saying: It is impossible to receive what you do not value. If you’re a supporter of others, do you receive support for yourself? If you’re a coach to others, do you receive coaching? Artists, healers, teachers… do you allow yourself to receive what you yourself give out? Why am I asking? Why… …Read More »
On loving yourself fiercely and staying present with what you really want instead of getting scared and running away. My client called in a panic, “Every time I make a little headway with this project, I hear a negative voice in my head saying I can’t do this, I’m gonna fail… and then I start… …Read More »
There are days when I wish I owned a megaphone. And if I did, I’d take it up to my roof where I’d shout: Attention! Attention! To the drainers, haters, and shamers… calling all controllers, passive aggressives, and the crispy, bitchy peeps. To anyone thinking I owe you something, and to the distant relatives still… …Read More »
There are days when you find yourself lost in the weeds. Somehow you’ve managed to wander way off course. You dropped your flashlight and nothing seems recognizable. Don’t freak out, this is not some new kind of normal. You’re in the weeds. This is temporary. You may not realize this: It isn’t possible to live… …Read More »
My friend texted me to say Robin Williams had taken his own life. Nanu nanu, she said. Rainbow suspenders forever, I said. This amazing, bright, shining, funny man who delighted the world has decided to leave on his own terms. We don’t really know what happened, but for sure it is shockingly sad to… …Read More »
I love an adventure. I’d call myself a thrill seeker. Learning to kite-board in Cozumel, whale watching off the Baja coast, and fire walking during a sacred ceremony in the mountains of West Virginia are just a few of the times I felt excited and alive. And I love to feel alive. Yes, sometimes that… …Read More »
Hello! A little note: Most of you here in the Love Posse are creatives of some kind… you’re healers, artists, writers, teachers, coaches…you perform a service to the world. But no matter what our profession, we all struggle with stepping out fully and allowing ourselves to shine. This Abundance Series is really about that: Your… …Read More »